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Public Presentations and Workshops |
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Association of French Schools in the Americas |
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San Diego was the location for the annual conference of AEFA/AFSA (Association des Ecoles
Françaises d'Amérique/Association of French Schools in America) in February 2005. Faculty and
staff from French and international schools from the US and Canada, along with representation
from the French Ministry of Education and Ministry of Foreign Affairs, met to discuss current
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Using the Cultural Detective™ method and case studies related to child-rearing and education,
Ruth led the group in a series of reflections on their own cultural assumptions and expectations,
and potential areas of culture clash with North American cultures. Participants were eager to
share their own intercultural experiences in a lively discussion that continued well past the
end of the session!
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Meeting Professionals International (MPI): Potomac Chapter |
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Ruth stopped off in Washington DC on the way home from Paris to speak at a luncheon
event for the Potomac Chapter of Meeting Professionals International. As a member of this
organization's Platinum Speakers Program, she has worked with MPI chapters in Santa Fe, Calgary
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 www.mpiweb.org
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The meeting was organized in conjunction with a major intercultural effort by the organization
and focused on the effects of multiculturalism on today's hospitality industry. The message was, "All meetings are multicultural meetings", not only international ones! Participants learned how
to use cultural values and expectations to create more open, inclusive and welcoming events. When planners
take into account the needs and concerns of diverse attendees, they increase attendance and
attendee satisfaction, and more importantly, bring many resources to bear on the goal or topic
of the meeting or event.
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Living and Investing in France Conferences |
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New Orleans native Adrian Leeds has lived in Paris for over ten years and shares her love
for her adopted city with fellow Americans dreaming of making the same move. She helps find
properties in Paris for those wanting to live there full-time as well as those looking for a
wise investment that can double as a vacation home.
Adrian brings together a team of experts in areas such as real estate, insurance, tax law,
immigration and insurance for the "Living and Investing in France" seminar (www.parlerparis.com). Her personal
experience in adapting to French culture convinced her that an understanding of cultural
differences and culture shock is essential for a successful transition to Parisian life, and
she included Ruth on the program for recent seminars in Washington DC, New Orleans and San Francisco,
as well as our colleague Natalie Lutz for the Paris conference.
The enthusiasm of Adrian and her staff is positively infectious, and participants followed
Pépé Le Pew (in action with Ruth, below) on a journey of cultural discovery as they moved a
step closer to making their dreams of Paris come true.

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Paris Presentations |
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Ruth and Gilles were guests of the Fondation France-Amériques in March in their gorgeous 18th
century "hôtel particulier" located, appropriately, on avenue Franklin D. Roosevelt. During an
informal Happy Hour, they chatted with members of various cultures and shared insights and
humorous anecdotes about living an intercultural life.
Another invitation came from Georgia native Patricia Laplante-Collins who runs a
multicultural Paris salon from her charming Ile St. Louis apartment, providing American-style
"à la bonne franquette" dinner and conversation for a fascinatingly mixed bag of guests. Ruth
and Gilles gave a brief presentation about French and American cultures, which led to a lively
exchange of ideas and anecdotes! Contact Patricia (and her puppy, Eve) at parissoirees@noos.fr
Ruth also enjoyed a soup and salad party to celebrate the 8th anniversary of Parler Parlor,
a French-English conversation group hosted by Adrian Leeds and Elisabeth Crochard (www.parlerparlor.com).
A very multinational group shared conversation and then enjoyed the warm spring sunshine while
having lunch on the terrace.
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Voices on the Waves:
Religion and Faith in Our World and Our Field
SIETAR USA |
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Ruth and her colleague Karima Bushnell co-presented a forum on religion and intercultural
relations at the SIETAR USA (www.sietarusa.org)
conference in Jersey City in November. Karima, a Muslim, and Ruth, who is Jewish, have spent
many hours discussing their shared frustration at the invisibility of people of faith in the
intercultural field. They are concerned that such people are seen by many interculturalists
either as gullible fools or as dangerous fanatics.
In an effort to begin dialogue and reflection, Karima and Ruth proposed asking questions such
as, "What is the place of religion in our world and in the field of intercultural relations? Can
we afford to ignore this subject, a defining factor in the lives of billions?"
Choosing theatrical performance as an entry point, they began with Karima's wonderful award-winning
play, Voices on the Waves: A Multicultural Comedy-Drama in Two Acts.
(The full text of the play can be found at www.bridgebetweenworldviews.com/Voices.htm).
The work features a lifeboat full of strangely assorted people whose thoughts and conversations
illuminate issues of culture, identity, faith, motivation, belonging and believing. This approach
reveals the multiple truths within each of us and shows how these truths help us to validate
or silence one another.
Thanks to Professor Anderson Johnson of the Theatre Studies Department at New Jersey City University,
SIETAR members were treated to a performance by a wonderfully enthusiastic group of student
actors. Some of them said afterwards that working on the play had been an important experience
in their own spiritual development, since it encouraged them to ask questions of themselves and
others.
The following morning, Ruth and Karima co-facilitated a discussion about issues raised in the
play with participants from several faith traditions: everything from Mormons to atheists!
Further evidence of interest in the topic was the group of some 20 SIETAR members who then
trekked out to Brooklyn for a tour of a Hassidic Jewish neighborhood with two local rabbis. This
was truly a unique opportunity to discover the mystery of Hassidic life with warm, friendly
Hassidic scholars who answered questions with knowledge and humor. The group visited a historic
synagogue, a mikveh (ritual bath) and a workshop where craftsmen created ritual objects, and had
a chance to schmooze (chat informally) with people as they went about their daily tasks. The experience
ended as the group shared lunch and conversations in a neighborhood restaurant (www.jewishtours.com).

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Coaching Activities |
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In addition to training intercultural groups and project teams, we are also involved in
various aspects of intercultural coaching. One example is working with families to prepare
for an expatriation, which requires exploration of many kinds of issues. Some of these are
practical and some are related to emotional issues and dynamics within the couple or family.
Typically, we need to work with the employee on workplace and business concerns. The partner
may or may not be able to work during the assignment, and this plays out differently according
to the couple's situation. The partner may need to plan for a job in another country that may
be very different from what he or she has done so far. If the partner is unable to work -because
of legal restrictions, lack of language skills or unavailability of a local position- we can
help plan for personal projects and transitions. If the couple has children, family issues are
a big concern. Whatever the specific issues, we look at how the expatriation experience will
fit into the lives and relationships of all family members before, during and after the
assignment.
One family that we worked with recently was moving from New Jersey to Grenoble with their
three children. They were all positive about the prospect, but one of the boys -a Little Leaguer- was
concerned about not being able to play his favorite sport in his new home. We were able to
locate an American baseball team in Grenoble and told him to pack his glove and bat. Go, Grenoble Grizzlies!
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Travelog |
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Some of our favorite discoveries from recent travels are listed on the following page. We hope
you will enjoy them.
How to Reach Us
For more information about our programs or any of the activities mentioned in this newsletter,
please email us:
Gilles: gilles@sococo.com
Ruth: ruth@sococo.com
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